Who’s responsible for

“How I choose to relate to an experience is what the experience becomes…”

Pause for a moment and think about what this quote means relative to how you experience a day in your life.  What is it telling you?  What it’s telling me is that I am responsible for how I experience each day of my life.  So when my days are consumed with busyness and are out of control, I am responsible for that.  If my days are a drag, I am responsible for that.  If my days are fulfilling and energizing, I am responsible for that?

What does taking responsibility for how Taking responsiblity for each day of your life is very challenging, and quite frankly, something that most of us avoid.  Why is that you ask?  First, there is a lack of understanding of what taking responsiblity for a day in your life means.  Secondly, due to the uncertainty and unpredictability of life’s various events that for the most part are out of one’s control, it is easier and safer to blame the events for the condition of your day than to accept responsiblity.  And finally, taking responsiblity for each day of your life requires that you take control of your fears and desires while giving up control things outside your sphere of influence.  Yet, when people avoid taking responsibility for how their lives play out, life’s uncertainties and unpredictability will feed on themselves creating greater degrees of chronic worry and anxiety.

Relate… to establish a connection

Do you recognize the name George Zimmerman? Zimmerman was acquitted last year of second-degree murder for fatally shooting 17-year-old Trayvon Martin, a case that drew international attention and spurred national discussions about race and self-defense laws. Well, recently, George was in the news again. I’m going to use George as an example of someone living a life of on-going struggle?

Do you think George is blaming others for his troubles or is he accepting responsibility?  For George’s pattern of on-going trouble with the law to change, what needs to occur for his life to take a different direction?  Who do you think is a major contributor to George’s on-going struggles? And what do you think needs to occur for George’s life to take a different direction?

Well, your answers to the above questions about George are the answers for your life experiences.


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